It’s amazing what the world has turn into. Everyday new happenings surface, new mysteries remain unsolved and the world tends to be in a state of what Patrick Obahiagbon calls Higi Haga or better still Crinkum Crakum.
Of all the strange happenings there is in the world, this article will centre on homosexuality.
Now in the actual sense relationships are suppose to be man-woman not man-man or woman-woman.
Christian Theology taught us that the first beings on earth were Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve, or Ada and Eve. But we find out that today people are attracted to people of same sex and as a matter of fact countries are beginning to adopt and legalize same sex marriages.
While other countries say no to same sex relationships, the citizen therein still secretly indulge in these prohibited activities; I’m talking gayness & lesbianism, but be it as it may life has to go on.
Ok, so after much fact finding i discovered that in an ideal society gayness has more severe punishments than its counterpart (lesbianism).
Ladies flaunt their sex status as lesbians almost effortlessly whereas a gay guy can’t even mention it in most cases.
In a real life scenario, a girl can comfortably say to one that she’s lesbian, can a guy do that?
The answer is NO! – at least in most cases.
It gets even worse on social media.
Over on social media, ladies be calling other ladies sweet pet names like BOO, BAE, MY LOVE, DARLING, CUP CAKE etc; can a guy do that to a bro?
NO! – he can’t try it, not even the least DEAR. Call a bro dear and he gets suspicious.
These days you see a girl kissing, hugging and having a smooch with a fellow girl; Biko can a guy do any of these to a bro?
NO! Hug a bro for too long and get beaten.
This one actually happened to me; I went to a supermarket to buy stuffs for myself, after purchasing my requirements I decided to do a good deed and I said “Make I buy this one for my guy” immediately I was labeled gay.
Whereas ladies buy stuffs for their fellow ladies and go scot-free.
Several other things like the above mentioned few happen in the society and the masculine gender suffer the most.